Relationships — Balancing the Male and Female Within Ourselves Follow Thoughts
Which of us has never imagined of finally finding and keeping our perfect relationship? What if we are in a Romance partnership that is confusing and always changing? How do we cope with the loss and heartache relationships can bring? What if we are not attracting any kind of intimate interactions at all?
The working design of good relationships are for many of us one of the greatest mysteries of life. It is a secret all us seeks to unravel from the day we are aware there is more than one of us around. Why do interpersonal interactions — something we are all engaged in every day, every minute, every second your lives — sometimes seem so challenging, complicated, confusing, difficult, and mysterious?
Human eye our partnerships with others actually reflects human eye the relationships we have with ourselves. Do we know who we are, and do we like who that is? Do we believe we are worthy and deserve unconditional love? While we may know how we wish anyone to love us, do we love ourselves that way already? Do we trust and accept all parts of ourselves? The bottom line for most all of us is we simply would like to be loved and accepted for who we are, for our real selves.
MALE AND FEMALE TEMPLATES
As we change our inner definition or template your male and female selves to a place of balance and self-acceptance, we are able to attract someone who is more reflective your true counterpart. Even if we are balanced with our inner sexy manifestation, if we don’t especially like our own femininity, we would be unable to create a truly balanced relationship for ourselves.
One aspect many people do not give much thought to is that we look to our partners to reflect tasks of ourselves back to us. For example, if we are a woman, our partner is holding a place for us so we can better understand the girlie part of ourselves. If we are a male, our partner is holding a place for us to understand the sexy part of ourselves. Although this may be one other way most people view their relationships, how, if we were a woman, would we be better able to understand what type of woman we were unless someone could reflect it back to us as we interact with them?
THE POSITION OF ANY RELATIONSHIP
The position of any relationship will be to find ourselves, to understand ourselves, to be the full and natural selves we already are. The only true relationship we ever really have is the one we have with ourselves. Devices, every other interaction, whether we might realize it or not, is simply a manifestation. As long as we resist being our natural, balanced selves, the real us, we continue to always attract relationships that will serve to remind us of what and who we are not. Resisting who we are will, therefore, usually attracts relationships that are unfulfilling, or ones where we’ve got to work very hard. Because they are fully and completely who we are, we then attract relationships that reflect back to us the fullness your creative being. It is the age old saying: What we put out is what we get back.
FUNCTIONING HALF COMPLETE
Many of us work as if we are only half complete. If we project the vibration of half of an individual, window shopping for someone else to complete us, we attract an partial relationship. The resulting interaction with anyone attracted in this manner usually come up short of what we ideally desire. Entering into any interaction from the viewpoint we start to use the relationship to feel complete, results in the relationship continuing to reflect and remind us your belief in our incompleteness. What we will have is a partnership derived from two half people, truly satisfying to neither person. When we know we are a relationship on to ourselves, complete and sufficient within ourselves, we set up a vibration that attracts someone with those same qualities and assurance. Too many times people list out long, wonderful lists of all the attributes they wish their perfect partner to have. The question to ask is, are we all those tips? Do discomfort those attributes? Unless we are able to reflect the type of vibrational being we choose to attract, how will we ever make sure and recognized by someone who?
WHAT DO WE ATTRACT IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS?
We always attract our definition of what we think we are capable of attracting, no matter what may be on our wish list. The first question we should ask ourselves (the easiest question for any relationship) is: What do we get out of it? What do we get out of having a relationship with so and so? Secondly, what did we learn about ourselves because they are in that relationship? We primarily attract situations to ourselves that create interactions, allowing us to continue to accelerate, serve, and learn who we are. We can do this with ease, grace, love, and joy, or through the school of hard knocks. The options is always our bait.
RELATIONSHIPS ARE OPPORTUNITIES TO SHARE
The reason for relating to someone else is for the opportunity to share who we are. Approaching a relationship as possibility to share attracts individuals who reflect our belief in our own completeness. When our relationships are set up this way, we are able to interact with the other person as two complete individuals coming together to share experiences. We will both know and experience the idea of personal fulfillment.
THE RESULTS OF EXPECTATIONS AND JUDGMENTS
When we put expectations or value judgments on the results of our relationships, we never actually get to experience the real reason we created the particular interaction in the first place. For this reason, it is important to accept relationships for what they are. If we invalidate what we have drawn into our lives, we are really invalidating ourselves.